Even the invisible can

Know This

You are exhausted:

Years of self-improvement, therapy and self-regulation. Yet, your bed is cold at night with no hope on the horizon

Liza Chuma Akunyili

01

You became a wife

Learned how to take care of yourself, be presentable, be family oriented and be prayerful.

02

You learned to build

Own businesses, study finance, parenting, men's health, & generational wealth

03

You even healed

Paid for therapy, got a coach, prayed some more, took a course, forgave your ex, & everyone

You are tired of …

  • Being told “you are intimidating men” or ” your standards are too high.”
  • Feeling neglected even if you can live without a man.
  • Attracting people you will never consider, and being ignored by those you would.
  • Being “an amazing friend whose husband will enjoy.”
  • Constantly needing to improve yourself “again” maybe it would improve your chances.
  • Receiving unsolicited “it would come when you stop looking” advice from people who go home to their spouse.

It’s okay to be irritated at this point, even. Because God knows you can be married even if you were less amazing than you are right now

This keeps happening

Because you assume dating is a job and the more certifications you acquire, the higher the role and salary you will get?

Think of it… You have been taught to always be valuable, but not how to show that value

So, what happens?

  • Men meet you as a business partner but never as a wife
  • Men like you but don’t know how to approach you.
  • Men don’t know how to get you to open up so they assume you are off the market.
  • Men speak to you like you are one of the “Bros”.
  • Some men even fear you and place you on a pedestal, saying you don’t need them.

You are not broken; You’ve just not been seen as the desirable woman that you are

You are desirable

Emotionally intelligent men of God pray to God daily to find a woman like you. However, they don’t know how to identify you in this crowded, loud dating pool.

During our 40 Days together:

✅ Confront what’s hiding you

✅ Identify your type (your secret Yearning)

✅ Learn how to protect your heart without blocking out romance

✅ Receive tenderness, love, and kindness

✅ Articulate your value without performing or shrinking

✅ Release the grip to only view yourself through your achievement

✅ Increase the width & depth of your dating pool

✅ Re-establish your connection with your sexy & feminine side

✅ Maximise the healthy relationships in your life you may be missing out on

Be Desirable

Be Visible

It is time for you to be seen, heard, touched and loved by your own man

Liza Chuma Akunyili

01

Experience maturity

Attract men who are grown and do not need you to shrink for them to feel powerful or manly.

02

Experience tenderness

Attract men who are secure in their masculinity enough to let you be your feminine self.

03

Experience Yearning

Attract men who are willing to go the whole 9-yards because they choose you above all else.

Liza Chuma Akunyili

This Is for You If You Are

Willing to date again

95%

Willing to commit

95%

Hopeful for love

85%

Willing to try

50%

Open to new things

85%

Okay with confrontation

90%

Ready to yearn

93%

Mature at heart

93%

Your gain from this:

 ✔️ A talking stage from putting yourself out there

 ✔️ Your sexy, feminine side that’s been locked down

 ✔️ Strength to walk away faster from someone who looks like “it” but wouldn’t fully step up

 ✔️ Openness to explore the dating pool with curiosity instead of judgment

 ✔️ A community of matchmakers you didn’t have before now 

What’s Included: 

✅ Pre-recorded audio & video classes (5 -15 minutes)

✅ Daily live group sessions (these easily become thorough therapy sessions that help you confront quickly & move forward)

✅ Workbooks & assessments

✅ Participant spotlight (your issues are resolved extensively, even if it takes longer than 30 minutes)

✅ Real-Time Q & A

✅ Dating in real life challenge

✅ Opportunity for anonymous questions

✅ A community app that allows for interactions

✅ Monthly live check-in calls (6-months)

Meet your host

Liza Chuma Akunyili is a Sex Therapist & Fashion Stylist who recently compressed all her education and experience into helping leaders in high-intensity environments find love.

Her passion for helping people express their tender side and experience pleasure while avoiding trauma bonds and toxic environments has been a guiding light within the last decade.

She supports individuals in removing blockages that affect their ability to connect with themselves and with a long-term partner, both romantically and sexually. Her work integrates Education, Therapy, Coaching, Sexercise, Touch, and Expressive Arts.

Liza does not believe in quick fixes because there are none with human relationships. Therefore, her ideal client is one who is ready to put in the work, is a believer in God and love, and wants to get married in a year.

Through her signature program, Desirable for Marriage, she helps C-suite executives who have been single for 5 years or more meet the love of their lives without compromising their powerful self.

2026 Wedding

Testimonial

Peter was an active participant of the 2025 45-Day Before the Vows prayer for men that began July 2025.

His last personal coaching session was in October, right before he began dating.

Wedding Date: 18th April, 2026

The Groom Speaks ”

This can be your testimony as well

Liza Chuma Akunyili

Yes, you can as long as you commit to implementing the process

While the practical side of things may be beneficial, the prayerful part of things might clash with your values and offend you. It is best not to participate if you do not believe in Christ

Missing more than two sessions consecutively puts you at a disadvantageous position since live sessions are not recorded

4:00 AM (EST), 9:00 AM (WAT/BST), 11:00 AM (EAT) & 6:00 PM (AEST)