You've built a life
You are worthy
Years of doing the heavy lifting, therapy, business. Yet, you come home to your awards and nothing else.
You've become a husband
Paid the price to learn from older men and made a decision to love your wife like your life
You've become a Dad
Taken care of other people's children knowing one day, you will have yours and need to do right by them
You have healed
Learned to feel your feelings, centre yourself and know who is worth sharing your truth with.
Yet, here you are…
- Being told “you must have a woman in every city” or you are being too choosy
- Feeling unseen even though a lot of people communicate with you
- Attracting women who only want your name for the status, but not the boy in the man
- Being “an amazing man whose wife will enjoy him” yet, no one is introducing you to the wife
- Constantly tackling the next hard thing since love is taking its time
- Receiving unsolicited “it would come when you stop looking” advice from people who go home to their spouse.
It’s okay to shut down at this point and focus on what’s working professionally. Because…love should not be that hard.
This keeps happening
Because you underestimate how your life fixes other people’s brokenness. And how much people will clamour for a quick fix if it is reachable.
Think of it… You have been taught to always be useful, reliable, and present but not how to be cared for or demand it
So, what happens?
- Women engage you as someone to bounce ideas off but never as someone to love
- Women like you but tell themselves that you must have chosen someone else
- Good Women don’t know how to engage you without the consciousness of competition
- Women put you on the family friend, brother and uncle pedestal so they never have to process their own emotions
- Some amazing women even pity you for the pressure they believe you get from other women
You are not terrible at dating; You have just not been seen as available even when everyone agrees you are desirable.
When you are truly seen
You are desired without inhibitions
You are worthy
Spiritually sound, emotionally intelligent, professionally successful women pray for a man like you. However, they’d never choose you if they met you because they assume things about you.
During our 90 Days of coaching:
✅ Confront what’s confusing women about you
✅ Identify your type (secret yearning)
✅ Learn how to protect your heart without blocking out your blessing
✅ Receive love, kindness, and tenderness
✅ Articulate your romantic value without the pressure to tie it to your professional or platform value
✅ Release the grip of your professional identity and announce the holistic you
✅ Increase the width & depth of your dating pool
✅ Maximise the Matchmakers in your life, you may be missing out on
✅ Meet great women and lock in on your bride
Be Yearned For
It's time to let yourself be seen, heard, touched and loved by your own woman
Experience Maturity
Attract a woman who is grown and does not require you to pretend your life is not what it is
Experience Tenderness
Attract a woman who is secure in her femininity enough to let you be the man you are
Experience Yearning
Attract a woman who wants you as a man and is willing to go the whole 9 yards with you.
This Is for You If You Are
Willing to date again
Willing to commit
Hopeful for love
Willing to try
Open to new things
Okay with confrontation
Ready to yearn
Mature at heart
Your gain from this:
✔️ Your first 6 dates from putting yourself out there
✔️ Courage to receive the woman who truly wants you
✔️ An actual relationship (if you love your match)
✔️ An assigned relationship coach to help you and your girlfriend last longer than the honeymoon phase
✔️ Marriage preparation with the FirstFive Marriage Coalition.
What’s Included:
✅ 10 pre-recorded audio files (15 -30 minutes tops)
✅ 6 live calls to measure progress and determine change of strategy
✅ Marriage CVs of potential matches to help you make a choice (maximum of 15 CVs)
✅ Private chat access for all 90 days
✅ Monthly post-connection check (3 months)
Meet your matchmaker
Liza Chuma Akunyili is a Sex Therapist & Fashion Stylist who recently compressed all her education and experience into helping leaders in high-intensity environments find love.
Her passion for helping people express their tender side and experience pleasure while avoiding trauma bonds and toxic environments has been a guiding light within the last decade.
She supports individuals in removing blockages that affect their ability to connect with themselves and with a long-term partner, both romantically and sexually. Her work integrates Education, Therapy, Coaching, Sexercise, Touch, and Expressive Arts.
Liza does not believe in quick fixes because there are none with human relationships. Therefore, her ideal client is one who is ready to put in the work, is a believer in God and love, and wants to get married in a year.
Through her signature program, Desirable for Marriage, she helps C-suite executives who have been single for 5 years or more meet the love of their lives without compromising their powerful self.
2026 Wedding
Testimonial
Peter was an active participant of the 2025 45-Day Before the Vows prayer for men that began July 2025.
His last personal coaching session was in October, right before he began dating.
Wedding Date: 18th April, 2026
The Groom Speaks ”
This can be your testimony as well
Become Romantically visible
Stop being easily forgotten and dismissible
Absolutely not. However, we require anonymous testimonials when your story is successful.
No, you don't. As long as the cost of the service is within your range, you are welcome.
It is not mandatory. However, it helps to know you have made your choice and do not need to keep searching.
We review your initial assessments for any discrepancies. We require you take the assessments again and we change the search criterion.
Yes. This is a Christian Matchmaking agency and our clients are ministers and leaders in the Christian community. It helps to have the same values.
Yes. However, you cannot extend it beyond 4 cycles (1 year) as it honestly does not take that long to make a decision.
Yes. As each cycle requires our team to restart your service all over again. Every 90 days, you are likely to pick up or solidify a new habit. Each cycle registration takes account of those changes.
No, you cannot. However, if you decide to date someone you met outside our service within the first 30 days of registering with us, we will convert your payment into a relationship counselling session (60 minutes a week - for 6 weeks).