How healing changes who you are physically attracted to

In this live YouTube podcast episode with Scary to Remarry, our goal is to find out how healing changes who you are physically attracted to, what becomes the metrics for physical attraction, and how you find and understand sexual compatibility with someone if you are presently not sleeping with them, especially if you are a person of faith and you are abstaining. How do you get sexual compatibility while being a single person, but also making sure you are not making sexual choices on the premise of previous trauma?