Men’s Prayer 1.0

This is an extract from the Get Married in a year men’s prayer. The full replay in context can be found here

Prayer 1️⃣: Ask God. God, what is your way? What is your will? And what is your time?

Regarding this marriage matter, Lord, what is your will for me? How am I supposed to go about this? Lord, what is your will for my marriage? What is the time for my marriage? Is it tomorrow? Is it next month? Is it last week? What is the time?

Prayer 2️⃣: Lord, help me to focus on you. Have mercy upon my vision. Have mercy upon my thought process. Help me to focus on what you are focusing on.

God is focusing on bringing me into the promised land. I cannot be focused on the enemy. I cannot be. Lord, help me to focus on you.

Prayer 3️⃣: Lord, help me to engage on where you are. Help me to prioritise your stance. Help me to stand like you stand. Help me to engage like you engage. Help me to commit to being where you are regarding my marriage, God.

I don’t want to commit to where the economy is. I don’t want to commit to what the divorce statistics are saying. I don’t want to commit to what other men are saying. I don’t want to commit to what’s happening in other people’s marriages. I want to commit to what the Lord is committing to regarding my marriage.

Prayer 4️⃣: Lord, give me strength to pray and not to faint. Help me, God, not to be a coward. Help me not to lose heart. Help me not to lose grip. Help me not to give up. Help me not to give in. Help me to stand. Help me to stand with courage. Help me.

Help me, God. Help me to be a man of courage, to not just speak a lot of English, but to have courage in my heart, to have faith in my heart, to be conscious in my faith regarding my marriage, to be able to lay hold on the promises you have made to me that I’m able to receive with boldness what you have given me. God, help my courage.

The Lord said to Joshua again and again, be courageous. Eventually he said, Have I not commanded you? Courage is a commandment. God, help me to be courageous.

Help me to be courageous with love. Help me to be courageous with dating. Help me to be courageous with stepping out. Help me to be willing. Help me to be courageous. Help me to make the move I need to make.

Help me to position myself where I need to position myself. Help me to have the conversation I need to have. help me to step out, God help me. Help me God, help me.

Isaiah 50 verse 7 says for the Lord will help me therefore shall I not be confounded therefore have I set my face like a flint and I know that I shall not be ashamed Lord help me to set my face like a flint

Regarding this promise, help me to set my face like a a flint. Help me to insist on what you’ve released. Help me to come into my promise at the right time. I will not miss my time I will not miss my place.

Prayer 5️⃣: I will not miss my place, I will not miss my time, I will not miss the pace of God for me in the name of Jesus.

I will not miss my time; I come into my promise at the right time, I come into my promise at the right pace in the name of Jesus. I enter into all the will of God for me and enter into the promise of God for me in the name of jesus.

Prayer 6️⃣: Help me to not try to be the judge. God, I am not the judge, you are the judge. I will be the man you will be God. I let you be God and I don’t usurp your place. Help me to focus on being a human.

I will show up in the dating space, I will show up and ask someone out, I will believe you that iIm led by you, I will surrender my desires before you and I will step out and act.

I will believe that you keep me from falling, I trust you to keep my heart from breaking, I will trust you to keep me from a wicked and malicious woman, you will stop me from engaging with her, I will trust you to lead me to the right one, I will trust you to cause the right one to see and love me. I will not talk myself out of the promise. oh thank you Jesus

Closing Prayer

Lord, I thank you for your sons. Thank you for every man of God on the other side of this prayer call this morning.

Lord, I thank you that you have done a miracle in their hearts. Thank you that faith has risen again. Lord, having laid their hands to the plough on the 7th of March, 2026, they will not look back. These ones will not look back until they come into their promise.

Lord, for every day when their heart is tired, when they want to give up, I speak strength. I speak strength in the name of Jesus. I call forth brothers like Aaron and Ur, who would hold their hand up and insist that they retain the promise, that they obtain the promise, Father.

Lord, I pray that they will have brothers who will hold their hands up in prayer, that they would have intercessors, they would have romantic intercessors, they would have matchmakers, they would have people who will come to you and say, ‘Lord, what are you seeing concerning this person’s marriage?’ People who will pray upon their knees, people who will bow their hearts in prayer, people who will listen and pay attention. Lord, I pray for the gift of romantic intercessors in the name of Jesus.

Lord, I pray for your sons that they will come into the marriage of your dream for them, that they will listen to you, they will hear you, they will pay attention in the name of Jesus, that they will not be distracted. I shut down every distraction, every apathy, every delay, everything the enemy has been using to distract them.

Today, I vex the interference. In the name of Jesus, I smite it by the authority of Jesus, and I declare that these ones will come into their covenant relationships.

In the name of Jesus, God, I thank you for marriages of the God kind. I thank you for a tsunami of weddings at Awedacity Nation. I thank you for a tsunami of weddings at ‘Get married in a year’.

In the name of Jesus, every person that needs to get married within the next month, within the next two months, the next two weeks, the next three months, Lord, they will not talk themselves out of the timeline. They will not say, ‘oh, but that’s not my pattern’. Every person that needs to get married in six months, in one year, I speak courage, I speak resources, I speak opportunity.

God, these things that look like they are random will no longer be random. It will be evidence that it is the providential hand of God that is at work. And God, when you do it, we’ll be open. When you do it, we’ll be receptive. When you do it, we’ll rejoice. We thank you, God, even right now because you have done it.

I thank you that bones are coming to bones. Flesh are coming to flesh. I speak to the four winds, wind, oh, wind, blow upon this land that they may live. I call forth the north wind, the east wind, the south wind, the west wind.

I call that you blow the breath of God upon every heart that is dry, upon every mind that has quit, upon every person that has given up, upon every relationship that seems it will not happen. Blow the breath of God, spirit of the sovereign Lord.

We ask that you blow upon us, that we may come alive a vast army, a marriage that you have called, God, that we come into a place where our marriages become an army for you, an army you will use to break through the camp of the wicked one in the name of Jesus, that our marriages will produce children who can confront the enemy at the gates in the name of Jesus.

Thank you, God, for miracles, signs and wonders. Thank you for answer prayers. Thank you because the days of apathy and fear over. Thank you because we have come into courage. In Jesus’ mighty name we have prayed.

Amen.

I love you, man of God. God loves you more.

It was amazing to have done this with you. Thank you so much for joining. Thank you for sharing the replay with someone. God bless you. Bye.