This is not therapy. This is not another coaching session. This is not a journal prompt, a mood board, or a long talk with your friends about what you want in a partner.

Dating in Real Life is about one thing: actually dating. Not thinking about it. Not planning for it. Not waiting for it. Doing it.

If you’ve been stuck in analysis mode—reading books, watching videos, praying, talking, healing, and still not meeting anyone—this challenge is your next step.

For three weeks, I will guide you with one clear goal: to get you talking to real people, in real time, with real potential.

Here’s how it works:

• Three emails a week.

• Each email gives you one practical, low-pressure, real-world activity that nudges you into conversations, reconnections, or bold assertions.

• Over three weeks, that’s nine chances to show up differently and open a door you’ve probably been circling for years.

You’ll learn how to use your existing community, your social circle, and your social media as your dating app—because swiping on strangers isn’t always where the magic is.
Why not start where you already have data? Where you or your friends already have context, where people show you who they are without even knowing they’re auditioning?

By the end of this challenge, I expect that you’ll be talking to at least three people. Maybe they’re new. Maybe they’re familiar, but the connection feels fresh, honest, and fun. Either way, you’ll be out of your head and back in the world of connection.

This isn’t theory. This is practice. Because the only way to date is… to date.

Join Dating in Real Life. Let’s stop rehearsing and start relating.